How To Make A Decision About Your Relationship Once And For All
Even If Every Book, Course, And Couples Counselor Has Failed You
If you’re the woman who seems to “have it all together”...
But when it comes to your marriage, you feel completely lost, alone, frustrated, and stuck in the same destructive and paralyzing patterns over and over again…
This will be the most important letter you’ll ever read.
If you’re desperate to resolve your relationship struggles, but you keep falling into the same destructive and paralyzing patterns over and over again… this will be the most important letter you’ll ever read.
If you’re someone who reads every marriage-related book you can get your hands on, but you never apply what you learn...
If you often find yourself sitting on the sidelines and complaining about your relationship issues, but never actually doing the work to resolve them…
If you’re looking for a magic pill to “fix” your spouse…
I should just tell you now:
This program is not for you.
While this program will provide you with tons of relationship tools, new insights, and personalized support, it is not a done-for-you service... because only you can do what’s necessary to get your answer for your heart, your marriage, and your life.
Neither you nor your spouse can be "fixed" by this program.
Because, in reality, neither of you are broken! You just haven't been equipped for success.
COMMITTED TO CHANGE: Genuinely ready to do what it takes to either fully commit to your relationship or lovingly release it.
NOT IN VICTIM MODE: Willing to make the necessary changes within yourself to show up as the woman you want to be in your relationship.
A “GET IT DONE”-TYPE OF WOMAN: Eager to dive in, learn new things, and apply the tools over and over again until you feel truly confident and equipped to make a decision.
EAGER FOR RESULTS: Motivated to find clarity and feel peace in your life and heart.
If you feel that any of the above describes you, THIS PROGRAM CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE!
The Decision: Should I Stay or Go? membership is my most comprehensive program yet to help you come to a decision about your marriage… once and for all!
This program will give you everything you need to find clarity and overcome your endless indecision.
Whether you decide to stay and reconnect with your spouse or peacefully and lovingly leave the relationship, you’ll be equipped to confidently make the decision… with no regrets!
And P.S. This is the last time the membership will be offered until next year!
This program includes:
A welcome packet that will help you gain traction in the program quickly, so that you can start to feel shifts right away!
A 1-on-1 Kickstart Call with a team member to help you get started and customize your path to success.
An All-Access Pass to The Decision video library to guide you through the decision-making process with tools you can begin applying instantly!
Live Calls with me each month. A live Q&A, a live Coaching Call, a live Teaching Call and an intimate Coffee & Cocktails conversation with me each month.
Plus, access to our Private Members Only Community Area, so you can get even more insights and support from myself, my team, and other women who understand exactly what you’re going through!
Best of all…
The Decision is specifically Designed To
Resolve ANY Type Of Relationship Conflict
My proven process and membership program is designed for any woman struggling to make a decision about their most intimate relationship, whether you’re:
Completely unsure of what to do next: You don’t know whether your answer is to stay or go, and you’re terrified of making the wrong decision and living with regret
Leaning toward fixing your marriage: You want to give your marriage the very best opportunity to evolve and feel good again - but you aren’t sure if that’s possible
Leaning toward walking away peacefully: You want to release the marriage, but you’re paralyzed with fear of regret.
Experiencing an affair: You or your partner have betrayed the relationship and you’re trying to make sense of how to move forward (one direction or another) for yourself and your family
You never had a class in school about sustaining passion within a marriage, right?
There was never a class on intimacy, connection, or trusting yourself (or anyone else) emotionally.
There was never a class on unwinding a relationship peacefully and lovingly (without the $100K lawyer bill).
And unless your parents were the perfect example of a healthy marriage, you didn’t learn these skills growing up at home, either.
Many people go through life never learning these crucial lessons.
They stumble through relationships, regret their decisions, and constantly search for the connection they desire.
But you have an opportunity to change all this!
When you claim the (relationship) “keys to the kingdom” that I’ve used with my private clients, amazing things will happen!
You can achieve a mature and unbiased perception of your spouse (to clearly see what they are and aren’t capable of in the relationship).
By increasing your confidence and decisiveness within, you can set healthy boundaries in all your important relationships (and trust that you’ve got your own back!).
And with absolute clarity about what’s possible for your relationship (and what’s not), your brain will finally have the energy to focus on what you truly desire for your life and relationship.
Clarity is possible… even if you’ve felt lost and stuck for years!
Whether you ultimately decide to stay or go, this confusing, paralyzing, and turbulent period of your life will come to an end, and you’ll finally have the peace of mind and clarity you’ve been craving for so long - without regrets.
There was no high school class about sustaining passion in a marriage.
There wasn’t a class on intimacy, connection, and trusting one other emotionally.
There wasn’t a class on unwinding a relationship peacefully and lovingly (no $100K lawyer bill required).
And unless your parents were the perfect example of a healthy marriage, you likely didn’t learn these skills growing up at home, either.
Many people go through life never learning these crucial lessons. They stumble through relationships, regret their decisions, and constantly search for the happiness they lack.
...But you have an opportunity to change all this.
Because when you claim the “relationship keys to the kingdom” I’ve used with my private clients, amazing things will happen.
You’ll achieve a mature and unbiased perception of your spouse (so you can clearly see what they are and aren’t capable of in the relationship).
By increasing your confidence and decisiveness around your relationship, you’ll be able to set healthy boundaries in all your important relationships (so you can trust that you’ve got your own back).
With a new crystal-clear perspective on your relationship, your brain will finally have the energy to focus on what you want to create in your own life (maybe now is your time).
And, yes… clarity will come.
Whether you ultimately decide to stay or go, this confusing, paralyzing, and turbulent period of your life will come to an end, and you’ll finally achieve the peace and clarity you’ve been craving for so long - without regrets.
Join The Decision: Should I Stay or Go? Membership right now and SAVE!
In celebration of my birthday this month, I’m waiving the $697 starting fee I normally charge for this program.
So instead of paying $697 for your first month and $249/month thereafter…
You can get started today for JUST $249!
That’s a $448 savings when you JOIN NOW.
Lock in your monthly payment now - for as long as you’re a member, you’ll pay only $249/month!
The only catch? This offer only lasts for 48 hours.
You have until 11:59PM PT on Thursday, October 19th to take advantage of this incredible deal.
As soon as you sign up, you’ll gain INSTANT ACCESS to The Decision video library that will guide you through the decision-making process and equip you with the tools you need to get clarity about your next best steps.
You're immediately invited to our weekly live calls.
Your monthly membership fee will be billed on the same date each month. (This will begin the date you signed up OR every 30 days - whichever is sooner).
And your fee will be the same amount each month: this amount will not increase as long as you remain a member.
The Decision membership includes LIVE weekly coaching calls with me!
This is where you can ask me all of your most unique relationship questions that have been keeping you stuck for years on end.
You’ll get instant answers from a relationship expert, finding new ways to move forward and make real change in your marriage - the type you’ve been craving!
As I’m sure you know by now, relationships are incredibly complicated.
At this point, your relationship issues have been building up for years or decades...
So it’s unrealistic to believe that you can undo all of the challenges within one month (no matter how motivated or “Type A” you are).
To really find clarity and decide how to move forward in your relationship, you’ll need to truly commit to consuming the materials, applying the tools until they become habitual, and creating all the necessary changes in your relationship as you gain more information about what's truly possible for your marriage… and what's not.
So while, of course, you’re allowed to leave at any time…
If you decide to come back, you will have to pay the $697 starting fee to restart your membership.
If you leave before creating habits that lead to lasting change in your marriage or a decision that you can see through to the end, you may risk being stuck without the tools and support you need when things get difficult again.
I ask for this commitment because I want you to get to real clarity… and doing so takes some time.
When this offer ends on Thursday, October 19th at 11:59PM PT it won’t be available again until next year and likely not at this price.
The program is available for just $249/month (no starting fee!) ONLY until doors close on October 19th.
And truth be told…
The longer your relationship challenges go unsolved, the more resentments will mount, distances will grow, and hurt will deepen.
If you want to create the best outcome possible for your marriage, there’s no time to waste on courses that reaffirm what you already know or couples counseling that boils down to “venting sessions.”
The time to make real change in your relationship is NOW…
And that’s exactly what I’ll help you do in this program.
This Offer Lasts For 48 Hours ONLY!
Sign Up Now To Lock In The Best Price
Q: Will this program work for me… because my situation is unique?
A: Your relationship is unique, of course. But your relationship challenges are (likely) not. You only think they’re unique because we rarely (read: NEVER) talk about our relationship problems with other people! This program (and especially, this community!) will remind you that many of our biggest relationship challenges are actually relatable. This program can absolutely work for you!
Q: What if I already know my answer… is to leave my marriage?
A: Okay....I hear you, and I understand. But there's some reason why you haven't left and moved through divorce yet! The Decision will either cement your plan in place or give you something new to consider. But either way...you'll be moving forward!
Q: Can men / my spouse do this program, too?
A: Yes, of course! After coaching women through relationship challenges for more than ten years, many men have found my teachings and perspectives helpful. (Several of those men are in The Decision themselves.) But please pay attention to a few things: (1) I only coach people who "want" coaching (so if your partner isn't asking and you're forcing this upon them in an effort to change him/her, they will not be able to receive any of the teachings I offer); and (2) while the program and my teachings are NOT gender-specific, many of my examples come from the perspective of heterosexual relationships and a woman's point-of-view. Anyone can benefit from these tools and teachings - if they want to and they're willing to learn how to engage in relationships differently (because the way you're engaging today clearly isn't working).
Q: What makes this program different from the other courses I’ve already tried?
A: Most relationship programs focus only on content, leaving you to actually apply the teachings (the hardest part!) by yourself. Our members get incredible results because the program encompasses all 3 of the pieces you need to create real change: content, coaching, and community. My content embraces a non-judgemental, yet no-BS approach. Our coaching is where we help you apply the tools to your specific circumstances and continue making progress, even when things get hard. And our community is a 24/7 sounding board where you can ask all your questions and realize you’re not alone… all in complete privacy.
Q: What if I can’t afford the price?
A: All I can say is: When something is a priority for us, we are forced to figure it out. If the transmission on our car fails, we figure out how to get it fixed. If our furnace dies in the middle of winter, we figure it out. And shockingly, when we have to hire a divorce attorney and they require a deposit of $5000, we somehow figure that out as well. I'll flip the question and ask you: Why hasn't this been a priority for you? Aren't you, your happiness, and even your marriage and family a priority?
Okay! I appreciate you taking the time to read this letter, and I hope you find peace and contentment in your relationship soon.
P.S. If you’re like me and skip to the end of these letters, here's what you need to know:
The Decision: Should I Stay or Go? membership program is my most comprehensive program yet to help you come to a decision about your marriage… once and for all!
This program will give you everything you need to find clarity in your relationship and overcome your endless indecision.
Whether you decide to stay and reconnect with your spouse or peacefully and lovingly leave, you’ll be able to confidently make the decision with no regrets!
If you sign up by 11:59PM PT on Thursday, October 19th, I’ll waive the $697 starting fee. You’ll pay only $249/month (NO other fees) for as long as you’re a member.
This is the last time you can join the membership until next year.
You can cancel your membership at any time.
However, please be aware that your relationship issues cannot be solved overnight. I highly recommend committing to the membership for one full year, to ensure you’ve made the lasting changes necessary to find clarity and happiness.
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