Divorce Is Frightening… But It Doesn’t Have To Be A Fight
If You Feel Like You’ve Exhausted All Possibilities And Divorce Is Your Best Path To Happiness… PLEASE READ THIS
From The Desk Of Sharon Pope
Love & Relationship Coach
Dear Friend,
There’s a whole world of support for relationships and making a marriage work…
But no one ever teaches us how to unwind a marriage peacefully and with as little pain and emotional turmoil as possible.
The truth is:
You don’t have to fight.
You don’t have to hate each other.
You don’t even have to hurt each other.
You can peacefully part ways.
You can be emotionally supportive to one another.
You can even be friends.
Divorce Is What You Make Of It
A peaceful divorce is possible, but it starts with managing your mind.
Divorce can be frightening, and as fear creeps in, if you don’t manage it... fear will keep you stuck.
Fear of the unknown, of hurting him, of being alone.
Yet at the exact same time, you’ll be consumed with a feeling of certainty that you can’t continue on with the way things are.
You’ve wondered, “How can I endure this until the kids are gone?”
Because while the thought of staying in an unhappy marriage is unbearable… hurting your kids would be even worse.
What if they have to worry about their parents fighting every time they’re in a room together?
What if they feel forced to take sides?
What if this becomes the big, traumatic event that ruins their childhood?
Plus, with kids involved, you’re going to be in relationship with your spouse for the rest of your life (sporting events, parent/teacher conferences, graduations, weddings, birthday parties, grandkids)...
So a messy, contentious divorce is less than ideal. In fact, it’s unthinkable.
It’s Time To Get Some Help
Most of what we see from other couples is anger, venom, and a great deal of pain and destruction in the wake of a divorce...
But even if this is the only kind of divorce you’ve seen, it isn’t the only option.
Peacefully parting ways CAN be done, but it’ll take intention, compassion, and understanding.
I know this because I’ve seen it happen over and over again.
Some of my clients still celebrate holidays together as a family.
Some of them are able to peacefully co-parent.
One of my clients even went for ice cream together after signing their divorce papers - and he had been against the divorce from the start!
And in every single case, I only worked with the women, not the couple. I never even met the husbands.
It’s in both of your best interests to part ways peacefully, avoiding being stuck in angst and bitterness for the next 20 years or more.
Even better, your kids won’t have to suffer because mom and dad can’t be emotionally mature adults.
And it’s not only possible to do this; with the right steps, it’s plausible.
So I’ve put together a comprehensive program on how to peacefully unwind your marriage so you can find your own truth and clarity and begin moving toward happiness for yourself.
With that said, let me tell you...
Exactly What You’re Getting
First of all, this program isn’t like any relationship or marriage counselling or therapy you may have tried.
Counselling and therapy is backwards-facing. It looks to explore how you got to where you are.
So if you've already made the decision that for you, the marriage is complete, then rehashing the past and what got us here isn't productive.
It does not equip you with the tools to move forward.
The Divorce Differently© membership process and program focuses on 3 specific things:
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Where you are now
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Where you want to be
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How to get there
...and if being equipped on how to do that is what you want, this is the most efficient way to get it.
Divorce Differently© includes:
- New Coaching Videos each month to help you move through this difficult transition period (and tools you can begin applying right away!)
- A Live Q&A Coaching Call with me each month (where I’ll address some of your toughest communication issues)
- A Hot Seat Coaching Call (where I’ll go deep with one person to solve the most critical challenges in separations)
- Access to a Private Facebook Group (so you can get even more insights and support from myself and other women who understand what you’re going through)
- At least 1 monthly Facebook Live (so you can get your specific problems addressed and move forward with certainty)
While therapy focuses on your relationship...
This program will FOCUS on you. It will STRENGTHEN you.
It will give you the strength to make the changes necessary to move through this as peacefully as possible, regardless of your partner’s engagement in the process.
This is crucial because it lays the foundation for an unbiased and clear decision that you can trust you will never regret.
Another thing that will happen is...
The Anxiety You’re Feeling Around This Decision Will Disappear
And as you leave this relationship, you will be able to do so without fear for your future AND with compassion for everyone involved so you can lovingly leave and start fresh without any guilt or regret.
So, like I said, this program is different than anything you’ve ever experienced before.
Here’s just a fraction of what you’re getting…
- Managing Your Mind: Manage your mind through the intimidating and uncomfortable process of unwinding a marriage.
- Setting the Stage for Peace: Prepare in advance for the difficult conversations.
- Telling Your Spouse It’s Over: Get equipped with language so that you can tell your spouse it’s over respectfully and truthfully.
- Creating a Separation Agreement: Discover an easy framework for outlining what the separation and next few months can look like for your family.
- Telling the Kids: Have the initial conversation with your children and open the doors for ongoing communication throughout the transition.
- Answering Questions and Managing Reactions: Answer the inevitable questions from family and friends and set healthy boundaries for yourself.
- Managing Your Emotions: Understand your emotions so you can swiftly navigate the roller-coaster of emotions that you'll feel throughout this process.
- Keeping Your Own Peace: Determine which battles are worth fighting and how to release the ones that aren’t.
- The Broader and Lasting Impacts of Divorce: Heal the painful aspects of this marriage so that you can move forward without carrying any of those hurts with you.
- Dating After Divorce: Know when you’re ready to begin dating again and how to give yourself the best opportunity for success.
With this program, I’ve made it possible for women to move through the process of divorce with intention, peace, clarity, and maturity.... and come out the other side with no regrets, minimal resentment, and a far greater potential for happiness.
Here’s What To Do Next
A membership to Divorce Differently© normally costs $297/month…
But if you join before Thursday at midnight, you can lock in the low price of $197/month for as long as you’re a member!
This is a small fraction of what an attorney would charge to start a war and create lasting damage for all parties involved.
If you’re interested, act now, as this program will not reopen until 2022.
As soon as you sign up, you’ll gain instant access to the full membership site.
Your monthly membership fee will be billed on the same date each month. This will be the date you signed up (or every 30 days - whichever is sooner).
Your fee will be the same amount each month. It will not increase as long as you remain a member.
But Here’s The Catch...
Leaving a relationship isn’t a quick and easy process, no matter how peacefully you do it.
Additionally, this is likely an entirely new idea to you, which means there’s a lot to learn and a lot to implement.
So while you’re allowed at leave at any time…
You will not have the opportunity to re-join the program for 3 months from the date of cancellation.
You can leave at any time, but you need enough time to consume the materials, apply the tools, and take all the necessary steps to begin the separation process.
I ask for this commitment because I want all of my members to feel confident and supported as they navigate these new waters.
This Offer Ends Soon, So Sign Up Now
I appreciate you taking the time to read this letter, and I hope you find the peace and contentment you’ve been seeking soon.
Sharon Pope
P.S. If you’re like me and skip to the end of these letters, here's what you need to know:
The Divorce Differently© membership process and program is for anyone who wants to peacefully, and with as little emotional turmoil as possible, unwind their marriage.
It will give you the strength to make difficult and necessary changes while honoring yourself, your kids, and your family in the process.
It includes weekly coaching videos, monthly live Q&A coaching calls, hot seat coaching calls, and access to our private Facebook group.
As you leave this relationship, you will be able to do so without fear for your future AND with compassion for everyone involved so you can lovingly leave and start fresh without any guilt or regret.
If you sign up before the cart closes Thursday at midnight, you’ll pay only $197/month for as long as you’re a member!
This program will not reopen until 2022.