"If You're Struggling To Decide If You Should Stay or Go...PLEASE READ THIS"
I will help you find the clarity you need to re-commit to making your marriage work or the strength and peace of mind to lovingly release it
From The Desk Of Sharon Pope
Master Life Coach
Columbus, OH

Dear Friend,

If you are struggling to decide if it's worth fighting for your relationship or if it's time to leave, and you're serious about finding that answer...I’m here to help.
But First, A Warning:
Before we go further, let me make something abundantly clear:

I don’t have a "magic wand" that will bring you instant answers without having to do any work.

And I can't promise you that your journey won't be uncomfortable, and possibly frightening at times.

But what I can promise you is that I will support you in finding YOUR answer.

Most likely you already have your parent’s answer, your close friends’ answers and maybe a few other people, as well.

But the reason you still feel stuck and confused is because…

You Haven’t Discovered YOUR Answer Yet
Your answer is the only one you can fully trust and take action on.

Your answer will take your entire situation into account, not just what others want for you.

And your answer will come bundled in clarity, confidence and peace of mind that you can take action on without the fear of feeling any regret.

So with that said...

Here’s How This Works
If you’re anything like the hundreds of women I’ve personally coached, you’re probably feeling alone, stuck, confused, scared and possibly even guilty.

These are all normal emotions to experience as disconnection and distance takes their toll on a relationship.

For most of my clients, things were going pretty well for the first few years.

Then came a child or two, new responsibilities at work, a mortgage, summer camps, sports, tutoring, taking care of a home and all the other realities a marriage and parenting will encounter.

“Life” became so consuming, there was no room at the end of the day for the marriage.

And just like anything that isn’t nurtured, it slowly began to break down.
 
The little things that didn’t used to bother you, all of a sudden, were getting under your skin...DAILY.

And the realization that as your kids get older, and become more independent, you’ll be feeling more and more alone.

“What will I do when they’re out of the house and it’s just us?”

“How will our marriage survive without the distraction of the kids?”

You’re Staring Reality In The Face...And It’s Scary
It feels like there’s a giant chasm in your relationship between what you’re feeling now...and what you WANT to feel.

With the connection and communication nearly completely broken down, it feels more like having a roommate than a life partner.

Perhaps your children have began to notice and you’re worried that they’re learning from your example.

You don’t want them to end up in a loveless marriage, but you don’t want to force a divorce on them either…

You’re STUCK.

But you don’t want to make the wrong decision...

So you wait...and you hope...and you pray that something will magically change.

But it doesn’t.

And then before you know it...you’re a decade or two into your marriage and it feels like you’re living two separate lives.

If that sounds familiar, you’re in the right place.

This Is Not Therapy
I’m not a therapist, marriage counselor, or a girlfriend who wants to chat about the shortcomings of your spouse…

I’m a coach. And it’s my job to help you get UNSTUCK.

It’s my job to help you find YOUR ANSWER...the one you can trust and take action on with 100% confidence and clarity, and zero fear of regret.
 
Here’s How We’ll Do It
If we end up working together, I’ll be showing you new and different ways to approach your partner so you can actually connect and be heard...and allow the same for him.

It's about helping you get clear on what will serve you best and deliver the most happiness without any regrets.

I’ll personally guide you through this discovery so that 8 weeks from now you’ll have absolute clarity in your marriage and…

You’ll Feel Confident And Equipped To Navigate Whatever Comes Next
If your answer is to stay and reconnect so you can make your marriage work...I’m going to show you specifically how to do that.

And even if your husband seems “OK” with things JUST being OK...that’s alright. I’m going to show you how to shift the entire relationship whether he wants to participate or not.

If your answer is that the next best step is to go...I’m going to show you how to do that in a loving and respectful way that minimizes the pain both you and your spouse will experience...as well as that of your children.

No matter which direction is right for you, we’re going to put an end to the spinning and swirling of questions in your mind.

Whether you’re wondering…

“Why can’t I love him, he’s a really good man?”...

“How can I hurt him or my children?”...

“Will I have enough money?”

“Will I be alone forever?”

“How will I explain this to my family and friends?”...and you’re feeling paralyzed by fear or guilt...or you’re just feeling fed up and what you feel like you really want to know is…

“My husband is such a jerk, why can’t he understand what I need?”...

We are going to quiet down that chatter in your mind so you can focus on what YOU can change.
Here’s Some Great News
You don’t need to change everything.

You just need to change how you’re approaching everything.

And that’s what we’ll be working on together…

Equipping you with all the little things that nobody ever taught us about how to nurture a healthy relationship.

Things like connection, communication, and how to truly understand and “see” one other from a new perspective.

These “little” things are the vibration that will create a tidal wave of positive change in your marriage.

Once you’ve made these changes you’ll feel 100% certain that…
You Have Done Everything You Can Honestly Do
And when you can tell yourself that...you’ll be free.

Free to love without reservation, animosity for whatever’s happened or fear of rejection.

Or free to lovingly and confidently leave the relationship in a healthy, supportive manner.

And know this…

I am not tied to any specific outcome for your marriage.

I will not talk you into staying.

Nor will I encourage you to leave.

But I will lead you to YOUR answer as to the best next step and give you the tools to confidently take action toward your own happiness without an ounce of regret.
Here’s How To Get Started
My 8-week coaching program requires an investment of $5,000.

I understand this is out of reach for some people. And for them, I provide mountains of free content through my website.

I also offer other powerful, self-directed trainings for those who already feel clear about the direction they want to go...at a fraction of this investment.

However, if you’re interested in working directly with me personally...put your credit card away.

The next step is for us to schedule a “Truth & Clarity Session” where myself, or a member of my team, will speak with you directly to make 100% certain working together is the best thing for you to do right now.

And the only way for both of us to know for sure, is to speak in person.
So if you’re interested, let’s set up a time to chat.

During that call, if both of us feel like it’s the right fit, then we’ll move forward immediately.

And if either of us don’t feel it’s right, that’s ok too.

So with that said...click the button below to schedule a time for us to speak ASAP.
To your clarity and happiness,
Sharon

P.S. If you skipped to the bottom like I sometimes do, here are a few important things to know.

While I primarily work with women, I have helped a number of brave men over the years as well. If that’s you, I’d love to work with you as well.

Second...
This Is Different Than Therapy
Therapy is backwards facing. It looks to explore how you got to where you are.

It does not equip you with the tools to move forward.

Therapy is an exploration of your past..and to be effective, usually takes years.

It’s a slow, long-term solution to a problem you want relief from RIGHT NOW.

If we work together we’ll be focusing on 3 specific things.

1. Where you are now

2. Where you want to be

3. How to get there

And if “clarity” is what you want, this is the most efficient way to get it.

I’ll equip you with new tools to move forward in your life.

While therapy focuses on your relationship.

Coaching will FOCUS on you. It will STRENGTHEN you.

It will give you the strength to make the changes necessary regardless of your partner’s engagement in the process.


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